#449 How To MindF--- Brains In 8 Minutes with Chris M. King, neuroscience pioneer and "Witch Doctor" of StatusFlow.net
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Personal growth and self-improvement. (4:26)
Neuroscience, belief systems, and personal growth. (8:58)
Beliefs, science, and superstitions. (13:40)
The impact of social influence on weight and wellness. (17:29)
Self-improvement and energy tuning. (19:30)
The power of language and brain function. (22:08)
Overcoming self-doubt and achieving goals. (23:50)
Focus and prioritization in life and work. (28:24)
Manifesting through energy and identity. (29:58)
Business strategies and personal growth. (33:12)
Chris M. King built a life on the pillars of his childhood: grief, rage, abuse, and addiction. Despite taking nine years to earn his associate's degree and leaving his undergrad unfinished, he remarkably transformed into an NCAA hockey player within a year of learning to skate. With two failed marriages, one plagued by mental illness, he later forsook a lucrative career to become a poverty-stricken radio personality in Los Angeles.
Transitioning to marketing a hospital's neuroscience institute without clinical expertise, Chris then shifted to a tech role, which ended in dismissal. Jobless, he spurned a secure future, opting for penniless homelessness as he ambitiously built a company from his car's trunk—today, that very company prospers.
Unconventional as it may be, Chris's journey defies norms. His secret? A resolute choice. Termed an "executive shaman," "human tuning fork," or "irritated Buddha," Chris M. King, author of "Renegotiate Your Existence: Unlock Your Impossible Life," facilitates transformative expeditions. He draws from spiritual psychology and learns from diverse luminaries like the Flow Research Collective, Dr. Andrew Huberman, and retired US Navy SEALs and US Army Special Forces.
Chris takes individuals and organizations beyond their perceived limits, enabling the realization of the seemingly impossible.
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Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 0:00
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Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 0:07
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Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 0:09
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Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 0:33
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Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 0:41
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Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 1:28
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Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 1:30
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Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 1:38
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Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 1:39
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Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 2:33
Lightning? Oh, yeah. I mean, give it a little lube. First little explanation.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 2:38
So we're trying to do an intro. We're trying to new way to intro our guests. Just a little lightning round questions at the top.
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 2:46
All right. Yeah, what time do you wake up or amp me to Jesus? I knew you were gonna say that for some reason. Does
Chris M. King 2:53
God exist? The God of my understanding? Yes, Sky daddy. No. Okay,
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 2:58
like that, too. What else did I read that you read them for me? I do they're right there by my name.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 3:07
What's the first time you ever French kissed someone repeating questions already? Oh, yeah,
Chris M. King 3:13
that's a fun liner better or name was him? I was 13 Maybe?
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 3:18
Okay. Okay, we
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 3:19
got a name. Have you ever cheated on a test? Oh, yeah. We're off to a great start in my book. I'm gonna tell you right now. What is your
Chris M. King 3:26
how do we define cheating? I mean, there might be some wiggle room here. Okay, yeah,
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 3:30
explain. We can we can unpack that right.
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 3:34
Get right
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 3:36
what's your go to karaoke song? Baby Got Back these all these questions matter. You'll find out soon. We're gonna bring it all together. This is like a mentalist thing?
Chris M. King 3:50
Did you know that's not really true. If I'm really doing go to it's it's Gloria by them.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 3:55
Okay, see? What about that one? You got one.
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 3:58
Oh, have you ever done any psychedelics? Yes. Okay,
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 4:02
and then the last two. Did you listen to the show before coming on?
Chris M. King 4:06
Of course not. That would prepare me I don't work that way. Okay.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 4:10
Okay, this is this has given us a good kind of rush so
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 4:13
far. You've scored a 100% and then my book this is
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 4:17
the real question which we can kind of we can stretch out a bit but or give you some time to think but what advice would you give 10 year old self?
Chris M. King 4:26
Alright, I'll get real for this one. Ignore girls until you're at least 28 You've got shit to do.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 4:31
So you were chasing since the 13th You were on it by Pepe Le Pew pregnant.
Chris M. King 4:37
Yeah, I've been pretty girl crazy most of my life. Yeah. And it wasn't until I finally grew myself up that I was like, you know, maybe my priorities are not quite screwed together.
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 4:46
I mean, I've gotten a lot that might be mine. Boy,
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 4:50
I got a lot of childhood questions about this. Well, I'm always you know, my background. I know but the the pussy hound guys you know? like I'm always interested in the background because sometimes it's nothing just other than they really like to chase women. Sometimes it's a void of they're trying to fill from something that traumatic that happened. I feel like it's one or the other a lot of the
Chris M. King 5:15
time right into the truck. Show me maybe it's just egoic kind of you know desire or something like that or more it's a deep seated bid for connection or you know, to get a need met some unconscious psycho dynamic that is completely driving a dysfunctional behavior.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 5:30
Wow, that you just real bad off like the top answer on Quora.
Chris M. King 5:36
I know me really well.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 5:39
Well, you've earned your like,
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 5:40
you know me really well.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 5:45
You've earned yourself a plug. Why don't you tell everybody who's listening where to find you? Anything you're promoting currently, any of that?
Chris M. King 5:53
Thank you so much as static. We always set up a special page just for you. Status flow.net forward slash sweat equity podcast. You can check out the get unstuck campaign, of course, you can listen to our podcast, which is called mindfuck. And, and I actually dare somebody to apply. I don't invite people to apply. I dare them to apply. It's deep. It's gnarly. And it's transform. It's funny,
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 6:15
you should mention that we were talking about it before I saw that. I was like, you shouldn't have me on there. I'll do it. Yeah. I mean, I looked at your website. I was like, okay, Eric's all in on, I like you're putting out like, all the cussing on the websites. Awesome. I mean, it's just, there's a lot. I'm like, Oh, this kind of applies to me,
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 6:33
not gonna get monetized on YouTube with that language. So let's go back. You're, you know, at 13. You know, Where'd you grow up, give us a little back background, give us a little kind of, not a resume, but really kind of a shortcut of how'd you get to where you are right now.
Chris M. King 6:51
All right. So I grew up in a very privileged neighborhood in a very scary house. The pillars of my life were grief and rage and abuse and addiction and abandonment. Jesus built my life on those pillars. And as you can imagine, it doesn't work all that well. So after my first divorce, to a woman with bipolar disorder, and then my second divorce, I decided I should probably stop bucking marrying everybody and get my shit together. And so, and I have a history of making seemingly impossible things happen. I, I decided I wanted to be an NCAA ice hockey player when I was about 22 years old. And the only two things in my way were that I had, I was failing out of my junior college and I'd never skated. But fast forward 18 months, I was leading that team into the state championship. And so there's a science to making the impossible a reality and I learned it you know, I started working in a Neuroscience Institute of a hospital I started training with like people like the flow research collective the phone Genome Project, I still train regularly with retired Navy SEALs, Army Special Forces. And and and I actually did some psychology and some education, spiritual psychology. And so all of this, throw it together, put it in a color and set it on fire. And that's my company today.
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 8:00
I think this is
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 8:01
fast. That's a lot to peel off right there.
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 8:04
How is it?
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 8:06
How is like a big fish movie timeline of a life? Yeah,
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 8:12
well, how do you when you say, scientific, that's the part that really catches me, what is the science that you're talking about?
Chris M. King 8:19
Okay, so there's a couple of things. Number one, what we're talking about is that reality as it is right now is an end result of a system and any system can be hacked, if you understand how that system works now between the work that I did in Psych and spiritual psychology, working in the Neuroscience Institute of the hospital, where I got an accidental education and neuro chemistry, neurobiology, and my father, who never went to college, he barely graduated high school. He's an electromagnetic compatibility engineer. So I grew up talking about quantum mechanics and string theory and atomic Oh, yeah, none of which I
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 8:55
say like, Well, dude, quantum physics like that. Just that phrase makes me sweat, because I never took a physics class. So I'm learning a little bit later in life, but like, that shit is mindblowingly like, really tough to,
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 9:10
it's magic. It's magic. It just pretty much proves that I mean, we're gonna get into it but you could literally anything's possible. Be layers of dimension sitting on top of us right now. Most of the space around us is empty. I think I've said that three times in the last three podcasts.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 9:25
I look I cried watching interstellar not the first time not at the daughter scene like I do now. But how gravity works? Because because I was it was like gravity can change time on planets. Now the old guy now he's all back on back on the shuttle like what's that? Yeah. So anyway, like, what was his title again? Electro
Chris M. King 9:51
my father was slash is an electromagnetic compatibility engineer. What is that you want to know how to do design a circuit board or if you want to know how to vaporize a human target from orbit, this is the man to talk to interesting. That's
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 10:05
why we got SpaceForce.
Chris M. King 10:11
Into grammar school, you know, share what your dad does for a living? I don't know.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 10:16
To be fair, no kids really no. Like the the I thought my dad just writes on a legal pad. And he was a lawyer. And I was like it really don't care. Talk to the dictaphone most of the time. I don't know if that's it.
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 10:29
So I feel like we kind of cut you off on the science part.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 10:31
You're gonna ask a question. What do you want to know? How
Speaker 1 10:35
does it work? Has it worked? So like? So if you're, I guess just give me like, like, I'm five? How would it? How would you start things out, say I want to make a change in my life, say I want to change, I've decided I want to change in my life.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 10:49
Instead of doing ayahuasca, he needs to make a big change and get rid of a bunch of baggage. How about that?
Chris M. King 10:54
Well, they, I might do it for you. But the look, here's how the roadmap just through neuroscience works, okay, you have an operating system in your head, just like your phone or your computer. So to you, we call it a belief system. It's been running since you are about six years old, and you are the sole architect of that system. Now, the way your world works is that that system gives birth to every single thought you have. Now as soon as you have that thought, you experience it as a feeling. Now depending on who you ask, there's somewhere between 20 to 30 feeling but one of those is going to drive your actions or some combination. So your feelings drive your actions, your actions produce results. Now, here's where it gets weird. The results that you produce are unconsciously pre designed to validate the system that started all of this. So you got a feedback loop running around and around and around, you're gonna, you're gonna have like 70,000 thoughts today and make something like 33,000 decisions, the overwhelming majority of which are completely unconscious of which is why your life is the same as today as it was yesterday, and it'll be the same tomorrow. So when you slow it down, even create just a smallest hiccup in that loop, that space is the opportunity for conscious awareness as to what's going on. And this is where you start learning how to recode the system.
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 12:01
Okay, sounds a lot like neville goddard ever read about him or read his stuff that I mean, he was like, 100 years ago. Neville Goddard. Yeah, he's, I mean, it's basically, you know, I don't wanna say manifestation, but like, as an easy term, her kind of the idea is just projecting is is more like, when you create a vision in your mind, you're then creating that reality somewhere. And then, you know, it's basically what you believe.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 12:29
Yeah, keep you on track, too. And I'd like a more pragmatic psychology kind of sense, you know,
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 12:36
right. Just to me, it's like, I guess the hard thing is the actual belief. How do you make that happen? Like, you can, you can visualize, I'm gonna get a Ferrari, I'm a knight. But if you have like that 1% of like, well, probably not gonna get that Ferrari. Like, that's the, to me the biggest sticking point I mean, how do you just completely buy in?
Chris M. King 12:56
Yeah, there's any number of tools that will circumvent your internal bullshit detector so you can get around that but think of it like tuning a musical instrument right the thing you want whether it's whether it's a material thing like a Ferrari or whether it's an experience in this life, it's it's like this like credible piece of music and your human system, right mind body spirit is the perfect instrument. To play that music. Your job is to make sure that that instrument is tuned in order to do it. Now when you start talking about beliefs. I'll say, Well, what is it belief it's a choice a belief is a choice that you haven't taken responsibility for the second you take responsibility for what you believe you can believe whatever you want, make the choice that aligns with the outcomes. You want to have the experience, basically the music you want to play. Okay, I choose
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 13:39
easy.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 13:40
I choose to be straight. I tell people that all the time. It's a choice, right?
Chris M. King 13:44
I told the story for years, like I'm not a tall, I'm not tall, dark and handsome. Okay. I mean, you're a hockey
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 13:51
player. Were you like a wing? Because I don't get a goon vibe out. Yeah, no,
Chris M. King 13:55
no, I was definitely I was I was a sharpshooter. But the five, six I was 155 pounds At my heaviest, right? I'm not it's not a big day.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 14:03
100 marches in St. Louis. As long as you got that leg power. You're good, man. Right.
Chris M. King 14:07
But as soon as I mean, I never saw myself as a hockey player. But the second I believed it could happen. I made it happen.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 14:14
So yeah, there's something to that. You know, what, what do you say when people kind of have a nickname as a witch doctor, you know, that could be a pejorative or you could really kind of turn that around Judo style into something something positive. But what do you say when people call you kind of woowoo? A little? Say, Well,
Chris M. King 14:33
yeah, I can I look because you know, you mentioned Law of Attraction earlier. Yeah. Okay. You don't like the woowoo law of attraction. Let's talk subatomic physics. We let's talk about how particles are going to talk to each other. Let's talk about I can run this through whatever package you want.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 14:47
Right? That's crazy. Like Dick measuring kind of like, Oh, yeah. Well, I
Chris M. King 14:51
mean, it's just like, I'm sitting there talking about a book that was written 100 years ago and really didn't have a electron microscope. scope sounded like they weren't, he was just kind of feeling it. But now they can kind of prove a lot of the stuff that's like it was at one time was woowoo. It's just like, hey, quantum physics, right?
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 15:10
Like what's old is new again, kind of theory. Like it's cyclical the way some of these, some of these kinds of processing are operating systems or beliefs or whatever, you know, you I was talking to my kids about religion, and they're asking their sixth and seventh they're asking me what's Jewish? You know, what does that mean? And I'm like, Look, the three three bits. This is my dad answer in the car to kind of, because I didn't really have a good one but but I catch
Chris M. King 15:35
you off off guard. Well, then
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 15:37
we went to church, which what is Jewish sounds like Jewish are awesome. They're funny. They nosh they love food. Now. I was we we just drove by a synagogue after church, and they're asking me questions, and I was just like, you know, it all the three big religions in the world. Those three at least all pretty much have the same story, the origin story, it's almost not
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 16:00
just those, not just those ones, right. So all of them, I just had the similar like, they all have a flood. They all have this stuff. That's like, what I didn't
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 16:09
get into Rastus ism, or anything. That's friend over there. Gnosticism is the Rastus ism. No, I said not Oh, Gnosticism. Is that the rapper? Nas? Yes. Exactly. Well, and he is one mic, one mic, but I was just like, they're all kind of the same story. It's all kind of the same origin. It just kind of branched off and they're like, Okay, so
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 16:30
for him branding, he has been talking about branding. A little bit.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 16:33
Yeah, oral tradition kind of carried it in a different route. But that's, that's one of those things we're, you know, that's that's kind of how I look at it. Like, a lot of this stuff can be cyclical to timewise over time, like the book you're reading is, that's all right.
Speaker 1 16:48
Well, I think the cool thing is like you hear about all these, like, you know, old legends, old wives tales, or whatever they are, like, things that are like, oh, you know, sleep with your socks on and you'll have you know, you won't get sick and stuff like that. There's like, what, what are you guys getting that from so much of that stuff? They're like, Oh, this is why because we have the science that we didn't ever think of it that way. But now we can look at it and be like, that's kind of true.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 17:11
Yeah. Or don't put a hat on the bed, which my mom made. That one. That one's weird. Or, hey, fat doesn't get you fat and being cold doesn't get you a cold. You know, like those kinds of things. Eating fat, right? Doesn't get you fat.
Chris M. King 17:29
Right, having fat friends will make you fat though. Oh, sages. We've proven that.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 17:33
Well, yeah, we've talked about it on the show that, that that study of like the five friends or the five people you're around the most have a lot of influence. But the five people they hang out with have an indirect influence on you, too. And so
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 17:45
so think about me teaching middle school PE. Yeah,
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 17:49
I mean, to have fun with that. Yeah, run some real like, real mature here. Yeah, yeah. What would the kid tell you the other day in V penis? Yeah. He didn't. He wasn't
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 18:00
making a joke. MVP. And so I was like, what? Oh,
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 18:05
I forgot you meant to write that down. Here you're saying? Yeah, I'm not funny at all. Coach. Alright, we're okay. We're getting we're getting in left field here. You know what? Tell us about mindfuck. And how, how? Because it sounds a little bit uncouth compared to a lot of other podcasts.
Chris M. King 18:25
Yeah, yeah. Well, I got it. I threatened to start a podcast for a long time in a previous life. I was a am FM radio producer and DJ and and I got when I started doing the podcast, I got real bored talking to myself. And so it was my CFO at the time. He had this wild idea. He's like, why don't you just do one off coaching session? And I thought, all right, let's give it a try. And we had this incredible exhibit. The first one that we launched was this woman named Allison. I figured her out about eight minutes, I need another four to walk up, walk her up to the door because you can't just throw somebody through a wall like this. But at about the eight and a half minute mark dropped a bomb on her that just you can actually hear her on the podcast that catch her breath because it was so deep and so quick. And it was my my cmo who listened to this. And he said he called me up and he says, I know the name of the podcast said what he said you gotta call it mindfuck and I was like, what? We can't call it that. He's like, No, because he was listening to it like he's like fucking her brain right now. bought him I bought it for like a month better than penetrative. It's deep, transformative. It's just I said so I caved I said, Alright, fine. Call it that then.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 19:30
But yeah, I mean, I think Eric You can you sound like the like some of these mentalist guys, but a little bit more legit. Yeah. Like, it sounds like you have a very high EQ. Is that fair to say? I would say that is correct. Yes. Especially if you if that story would go to eight minutes. You know, why don't we do with Eric has as a test, do an intake on him because he's he's, he's hook line and sinker ready to get in the program.
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 19:56
You probably give me like three minutes, but I think it would be a good
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 19:59
thing for people to listen to and if they're interested, kind of, I think that would kind of get them to kind of understand what's going on. Yeah, it's
Chris M. King 20:06
it is adjusting, like I mentioned earlier, like tuning a human being, I mean, essentially what we're tuning is your thoughts, your feelings, your actions, your mindset, your framework, all of these things, especially your energy field, you know, we talked earlier, like everything is energy, you know, even the desk that that you're sitting at is it feels like solid matter, but it's like 90 something percent empty space, it's just compressed energy. And when you recognize that energy operates and bandwidths and frequencies, how do I adjust the frequency of who I am and what I'm doing to match the frequency of what I want, you do that and you bring it to you, instead of having to chase after it. This is the law of attraction thing. And
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 20:42
also, like, putting something out there, you know, in your head. I want to be more tuned in this way. I think I would say the thing. I think a lot of people want to tune themselves better. I think that's the thing. If you asked them, you know, on the street, we do Family Feud style, you ask 100 people at a mall? Right? I think everybody would say, Yeah, I want to I want to improve myself. I think the hard part a lot of people lack is consistency of doing it. Like I was kind of think about it as Be your own guinea pig, your own science experiment. And it's really boring, honestly, like, you really have to check in with yourself every day you really, like I was reading about that CEO. I think he's the Verizon CEO. He writes like his energy every day as like a journal thing. And he goes like, here's, here's, I felt like this throughout the day, blah, blah, blah. He's been doing it for like, 20 years or something crazy, you know, like, and I was like, I get that. I totally get that because I would forget I forget what happened three days ago. Yeah, because I've got a lot shit going on. But that's also not tuning because I'm not doing I used to take like 10 minutes and just sit and quiet and just Okay, what did I do today? Kind of thing. The unreflected life's not worth living kind of stuff. So is that what is that is that Catholicism is so crates, I can't remember. But if you wanted, can you do a test? Or inbound test intake for? I would imagine
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 22:03
we would do not? I mean, do it? Well, why
Chris M. King 22:07
don't you I can have an effect on I can physically affect the way your brain is working, just having this conversation with you by changing one word in a sentence. Okay, I can I can produce a different experience. Right? And that's how that starts working. I'll give an example. Think of something that you really like you don't and you're not going to tell me what it is. Okay, you want to use you mentioned The Mentalist earlier, okay. So think of something you really want and be honest enough with yourself something that you have some charge around, maybe you're frustrated or sad, maybe there's shame, but some of you are like, I just want and don't tell me what that thing is. But think to yourself, like really connect with that thing, whether it's an experience or an object and, and sink into the experience of, I just want that thing. And notice how that feels. Now, stay connected to that thing and say it without the word just what do you notice in the difference of those two experiences? It'll be subtle, but it's
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 22:55
there. We're supposed to say, Wait,
Chris M. King 22:58
yeah. Don't tell me what the thing is. Just tell me the difference in the experience. What's the difference between saying I just want that thing? And I want that thing?
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 23:06
Is like a lazy word. Well, no, it's like there's like a, it feels more. I don't know if it's confident. It feels more empowering. I think
Chris M. King 23:16
right? deterministic, more confident, more empowering. Here's what just happened. I just had a physiological effect on your brain and the way your brain was working, I changed how it function which changed the energy field which changed your frequency. That's why it felt stronger and more confident. I put you into a higher frequency. You just popped
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 23:32
her brain Jerry Brown. You just got mine. Just like Criss Angel, man.
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 23:39
That's how you end every
Chris M. King 23:42
I tell people call me whatever you want. Call me a coach. Call me a facilitator call me the executive witch doctor. I'm a Systems hack. Yeah. Because a system? Yeah.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 23:50
Yeah, you have an unusual engineer kind of purview of all this kind of stuff. That seems very thank
Chris M. King 23:58
you to my father, W Michael King, the electromagnetic compatibility engineer.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 24:02
I mean, good. Because I just before getting too far away from math and engineering, so we needed kind of more of that. And I look, you get me high enough. I'll talk about how math isn't everything. And you know, all of this stuff. And so you know,
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 24:18
so I don't know what so like, let's say,
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 24:22
I was hoping for an average sized penis. That was when I did my OB two. Yeah. And I said, I'm I went, and then I got I want and so
like, I'm sure you have people come to you that don't necessarily even know what they want. They know that they're like, in a rut, they know they're not themselves, they stuck, right? They're stuck. Do you approach them differently? Or is it sort of the same process? How do you handle them?
Chris M. King 24:47
Now there's, there's really very little in terms of structured process with this work is you know, the first things are number one, I gotta put you in a position of empowerment and number two, I gotta get you out of judgment. around everything that after that, it's, it's just the Wild West. Every client is different, every engagement is different. And how I relate to them is different. I can gently escort somebody through the door or I can throw them through it. But either way we're getting on the other side.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 25:15
Customized. It really is what it has to be because human beings are they're three dimensional, you know, we bucket people, it always annoys me because like people will bucket you according to like, the first thing they found out about you. Right? Right. And so that's laziness it is, but it's common. It's like most people do it that way. Because it's like a shorthand in their brain, right? Like, I'm always my, I'm always the little brother of my two older sisters, like, you know, social see, right? I'll never not be that even though I'm almost they still think of me as a little brother like little kid. So we we bucket, those initial things. I feel like one thing with people trying to get unstuck, is there's a lot of defeat ism in their head before they even go, you know, suss out what they want to do. There's a negative feedback loop, right? It's a self protection thing at its core, right? Yeah. Do you feel like that? That happens a lot?
Chris M. King 26:17
Oh, yeah, there's, there's any number of strategies for this kind of thing. And there's a ton of reasons for all of it. The second, you have a great idea, the next thing that's going to happen is all the reasons why you're an idiot for even thinking about that. And here's all the things that it can't work. And that should stop you. And I'll give you a tool. I'm all about tool. So I'll give you a tool for that. The second you have that aha moment of the thing you want to do or get or whatever. And as soon as all those all those reasons come in is my favorite. My favorite tool. I think for this, I don't care. Like all the reasons are going to be valid. Okay, all the reasons you can't have it will be true. I decided I want to be a hockey player. You're too small. That's true. I don't care you've never skated before. That's true. I don't care if I want it bad enough. If I am both committed to something and devoted to it at the same time, I cannot fail. It really is that simple use I don't care about every single reason why it's impossible. You'll make it out.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 27:08
You got that Tom Brady kind of stare when you're talking about this because I've heard Tom Brady in the huddle we'll go we're getting this fourth and 12
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 27:16
and you look at everybody we're we're you understand,
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 27:18
we're getting this like your whole face kind of just if anybody's watching a video, your faces got real in like in the zone talking about it. Like I've heard Hey, but I mean, that's walking the walk. But I mean, that's I'm using Tom Brady's extrapolating example. Because people know he's kind of a psycho and what he wants to do it he does it for the most part, you know, it's
Chris M. King 27:39
that simple. Like, how did I How did I build this company for you know, when I was eight, I had a job offer on the table that, you know, learn how to do commercial real estate or build this company. I was broke. I was living out of my car, I had nowhere to go that day. And there were days I didn't eat, right. The things that I did to have a roof over my over my head once in a while. Were sketchy to say the least I want to hear it. And the reality was, I was not going to be like this. This was going to happen. God herself was going to have to come down and tell me no one, I was still going to say fuck you. I'm going do this. Yeah. And it's just it when you have that level of intensity when you align yourself with something like that. You can't fail. Like there is no failure at that point. It's simply a matter of choice. I am deciding to do this. There are no other option.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 28:24
Yeah, and the things that I feel like clutter and get in the way. If you really keep that mindset, they kind of fall by the wayside. You're like, oh, this I've spent like a lot of people spin like, they're like, Ooh, I'm so addicted to tic tock and I'm like, nope. Like, I'm not going on that shit. Because everyone goes, I'm so addicted. I burned like two hours of my life every day looking. I'm like, fuck that. I don't want that. That's not a good life for me. Just imbibing that shit. And like, if you're very pointed on what you want to do every day consistently, I feel like that stuff falls by the wayside. You're like, oh, yeah, remember to do that shit. You know, carrying
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 29:02
a narrowing of the focus. I think a lot of people think of it as like, Oh, I'm taking on all this new shit. That I gotta worry about now with my new choices in life, but I feel like it's more of No, you just focus on this word. That's
Chris M. King 29:15
the thing your your life the experience you want to have. It's like Michelangelo creating the statue of David. Right. It's already there. You just have to remove the stuff that isn't right
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 29:26
trip away. Yeah, I feel like that was a small penis joke at me, but that's fine.
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 29:30
He was he emailed me before he's like, I'm gonna nail this
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 29:34
penis like that guy. Fine. weave this in. It's gonna be awesome. David and I are. We're growers. We're not showers. It was a cold day. That's all I'm saying. We see.
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 29:45
He's proud of it. He shows it all.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 29:47
Well, he doesn't have this leg power. Like oh my god. It's fucking magic. I know. I know. It sucks. It sucks, man. It makes it
Chris M. King 29:57
we can start talking about sex magic and how you can manifest through that. So well
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 30:01
I am Oh man,
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 30:02
I know I am an energy to make a two parter. I do feel like an energy guy when it comes to dating a lot of the time because that's what you get asked if you start talking to girls, you know, in the beginning and they go, What are you looking for? I just like I'm usually like, other than the primal carnal stuff of being attractive to me, like I, it has to be good energy, and it's not going to work.
Chris M. King 30:25
Energy is everything. It's not going to work. Right? You gotta,
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 30:28
we gotta Yeah, it's now Olden things, but I feel like we're you mindfuck
Chris M. King 30:35
broke him a little bit?
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 30:37
Well, I mean, he's got to write his diary. He just popped his brain. Cherry, did
Unknown Speaker 30:41
you think you broke me?
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 30:44
Well, I mean, I love that you're a guy that, you know, Eric and I have had our own individual issues the last couple of years and got out of that hole mentally. I liked that you had you're very honest about that part, like you got out of some real bad situation, it seems like and maybe some mental illness you struggled with? And you kind of you can, you can correct that course, it seems like is that? Is that what you're talking about? In the speaking engagements you do? Or? Or is it all different? Every time you're out?
Chris M. King 31:13
Yeah, we you know, it really is about how do we bend our reality and make the shifts that we're and make sustainable changes that we want? And I do it, I look at it through the lens of the concepts because like, there's no, there's no one answer for anyone, I will say that most people the problem that they have have is that they they start at the wrong end of the spectrum. And they go up against the grain and hope that willpower is going to power them through. But willpower is an exhaustible resource. And so the reality that people are trying to change, like, let's say, getting in shape is an easy one, right? First thing people say, Okay, I'm gonna get in shape. And so I'm gonna go to the gym and eat right and do all the things and they're addressing it at the physical and, and that's, like I mentioned earlier, the last thing that happens in the chain, so then if you address it the physical, then you got to swim upstream into the energetic and the frequency. And that's, that's exhausting. And it's going to take a lot longer, and it's probably not even going to work. This is why people are on that hamster wheel. If you address it in the energetic in that space in the frequency, then it comes downstream to reality, it takes a lot less time. It's sustainable, and requires a lot less effort on your part.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 32:19
What would that look like though? Like as it starts, like an exam,
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 32:24
live from the end or something like that? Or like live? Like as though you are already there? In your mind? Yes, yeah,
Chris M. King 32:32
you start you start with the person you start by showing up in your thoughts and your feelings and even the way you dress as the person that already has the thing you want. Like you start there. I mean, they say dress for the job you want not the job you have there's a reason for this. There's, it's it has to do with how that affects your frequency. Yeah. So if you if you start with an understanding of an identity, right like and you know, they talk about this in like atomic habits old school book, right? Great, great book, they talk about this, like start with the ideas and the thoughts and the behaviors. I'm somebody who makes smart choices. I am this kind of person, right that adopts the identity of the frequency of the person that you want and the thing that you're going to have and so this is how you address it up here in the energetic so it comes downstream
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 33:12
would it be fair to say visualize the person you want to be like if it was like if you close your eyes and go I want to be this person kind of thing? Because I get what you're saying but it's very broad and I know it's tough because it's different for everybody so there's so say
Chris M. King 33:26
that you don't want to be that person I will be that person or that person
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 33:33
putting something in between I gotcha this
Chris M. King 33:35
person okay now that you are that person strip away all the stuff that isn't that I am an average penis guy I am you're right so strip away the XL condoms, man like just go condoms
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 33:51
Yeah, what?
Unknown Speaker 33:52
I just did my what are those?
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 33:55
I thought those are those are like in the 90s Right.
Chris M. King 33:59
But if you're like I'm a high performing business executive great then stop with the social media. Yeah, yeah, but away. Yeah, no way.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 34:06
Yeah, you're right. It is a thing of like, I I tend to go these things I need to drop instead of going I need to it's the inverse. Which is that weird because the last caller has come the last episode we had. It was a similar kind of thing for recruiting. He was like, start at the end of this person you're hiring. What do they want to do at the exit of this job? Or what is their career path and that'll be the best thing at the beginning for your relationship with them. And I feel like a lot of things to be successful have this weird counterintuitive times a flat circle, all that all that kind of has
Chris M. King 34:41
already happened. If you want to get five times more done this week. Don't work more hours work fewer. Yeah, yeah. It's so counterintuitive. It's like a hamster wheel working more hours to get more done is very linear thinking
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 34:57
we've had people come on and go into you want to make More Money double your prices were like, right. And he was right. It was like, but it took us a year over a year to go. Yeah, actually, that was correct. You know, so
Chris M. King 35:09
I'd have a very hard time getting clients at a low price point. And then one day I just said screw it, and I doubled it for no reason whatsoever. And then it was so much easier. Right? Well,
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 35:19
we just got the tip of the iceberg I think with you, I think
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 35:23
bring out that application of punk. And maybe we need to if
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 35:27
you need for your speaking engagements, eat some openers. You know,
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 35:32
kick it around a little bit.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 35:35
I mean, I got I could do 10 minutes on my real bad Dick that's been called mediocre before. It's been it's been in the range of fair believes
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 35:43
we're gonna bring everybody down before the show. Well, you know, everybody
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 35:47
likes to laugh at a micro penis guy. I think I think that's a that's a shared experience.
Chris M. King 35:52
Makes them all feel better about themselves. Right. Right. Exactly.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 35:55
That's that's true that that's my charm. That's that's my calling really. But if we get you on again, I want to get have Eric go through the whole thing on live or if you go on the little swap? Yes, the
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 36:11
nine b2b podcast mm.
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 36:15
We call that the double dutch runner kind of thing. We both music can help each other. But thank you for coming on, man. This is great talk. Yeah, definitely. I'll
Eric Readinger, Fractional CMO, Producer and Head Of Media 36:25
I'm gonna figure I'll be in touch somehow. Yeah, about some of this stuff, because it's really cool. We're
Law Smith Comedian Fractional CMO 36:31
very excited to reach out. It's so good to see you both. Thank you for having me and fortunate to make a connection with you, sir. Thanks for coming on. Thank you. See you
